Hey new moms… got a minute? That’s a joke, right? Well, if you can find a minute or two between feeding baby, folding laundry, changing diapers and everything else under the sun, I’ve listed seven bits of advice you may want to read… and even heed… if they fit your life.
Kim Raver, a Hollywood actress (currently starring on “Lipstick Jungle”) and mother of two recently shared some words of wisdom with Kate Myers of MSN. Here more about how they take care of themselves and their kids in Hollywood without going crazy in the process.
Recruit family and friends - From throwing in a load of laundry to bringing over a meal you don’t have to make, their help can be hugely comforting.
It does get easier - At first everything can seem so overwhelming, but time and experience equal easier days ahead.
Play dinosaurs whenever possible - Life is too short not to spend time with your kids, so laugh and play and steal those moments whenever you can.
Follow your own dreams - You can pursue your dreams and love your kids at the same time… it just might mean their birthday cake came from the store… does it really matter?
Forget the goody bags - Keep things in perspective and don’t expect yourself to do everything every time for everyone… goody bags really aren’t a requirement. Ever.
Let boys be boys and girls be girls - Just accept that there are differences… like she wants to “create” mud pies and he wants to lick, eat, throw, stomp, squish and wear ‘em.
Notice everything - When you’re having one of those moments or one of those days or even one of those weeks when you have no earthly idea how you’re going to do all this, take a breath and realize how amazing it is that you get the chance to do all this.
Cut yourself some slack - You’re doing the most important job on earth and you’re doing the best you can. So what if your baby never made it out of her pajamas today or your three-year-old had chocolate cake for breakfast? They have you for a mom. They’re going to be just fine.